So I will be making 2 posts for today - one for the morning thru 5 pm & another for 5 pm thru this morning - yes I did an "all nighter"
When we got to the hospital we went to Post Op & I said good bye to Sara & her mom - her grandpa was there to take them home & spoke some English - he was so sweet & said to me "so you are the nurse she loves - when are you moving to Guatemala to join the family" - it was so nice of him & I took a last photo with her.
Our schedule was changed up a bit as there were 4 patients they had to cancel because they had gotten sick plus 2 no shows...they ended up adding 5 lips from Fri onto the schedule so it looked like it was going to be a nice end to the day with all the added lips.
Aside from the wonderful patients and families & feeling like you are making a small difference & changing a few lives in the world...the other great thing is meeting other wonderful volunteers on the team & hearing their stories. Today before we got our first round of post ops back Melissa who was doing medical records came in to bring us something & we all started talking. she used to volunteer with OSI with her husband who died from colon cancer at age 59. He was a retired attorney & sounded like a wonderful down to earth man - there is a OSI Volunteer award given each year in his name.
Finally on day #4 we got it right with the 1st 5 patients which are always the babies with lip repairs - we did teaching with the moms, asked them to not leave to get breakfast as their babies may be out soon & asked them to be ready to feed their babies after surgery (breast or bottle) and it all worked!!!
The 1st round of palates also went well - there were a few problems with bleeding but nothing significant. It was a much more manageable day, with a steady flow & less chaos - the PACU was actually often quiet & calm. I was taking less photos and enjoying more conversations. Hugging many grateful parents & just doing the work I came here to do. During the day I jot down notes to myself & I even wrote it's really just a "typical mission day"
BUT just when you think that it's a typical day you encounter a patient with a story that reminds me that what we are doing here is anything but typical. We as a team are changing lives like Arjen a 2 1/2 year old little boy who had a HUGE palate & lip repaired - his precious mom could not contain her emotions and tears streamed down her face for several minutes when she saw him after surgery.
OR...14 year old Manuel who lives 22 hours (via 4 different buses)away from here in a small village. His family consists of 9 siblings plus himself & his mom. He is the 2nd oldest and they are very poor and live in a one room "shack" without running water. His mom nor any of his family can read or write. A man who befriended the family - he travels to the smaller villages in Guatemala looking for some of the most desperate & tries to help them - after hearing that Op smile was coming & remembering that Manuel had a cleft lip he took the 22 hour trip to go & get Manual, brought him back on the 22 hour trip & brought him to screening, took care of him until today his surgery day, will keep him thru the weekend then make the 22 hour trip there & back to take him home. What a service to this boy & family. I got this storey from Andrea the student we have been working with. When I asked the man if he had any questions he said no but thanked me for all the service I was doing...I got a little choked up & thanked him for all he was doing for this young man & the difference he was making in his own country and said we should all be so lucky to have a friend like him in our lives...
Then if that wasnt enough patient 001 - yes our very first patient from screening Juan David came in after having his lip repaired. The local coordinator asked if I knew "his story" & I said no. She told me that they were from about 13 hours away but it was a 2 day trip - leaving at 6 pm from their town to take an 8 hour bus ride then waiting in that location until the next early evening to take a 5 hour bus into Guatemala City. They wore more traditional Mayan Clothing & seemed very sweet. For the last MONTH - yes MONTH the priest in the town has been asking the people to give any money they could to help raise the money to get the mom & baby & moms sister to the city and they would pack all their own food & stay at the shelter here. I know at home people are very generous & supportive of others so this isnt something we are unfamiliar with. What moved me to tears was when I asked the coordinator what the bus fee was & she said $8 per person each way $32 TOTAL - many of us spend that when our family goes out to Chipolte or somewhere for dinner...but here it took the kindness of people in a small town donating for a month because the town priest asked them to give & try to help someone in need. she was telling me all of this in the 1st 15 min I was getting the baby settled then I was ready to bring the mom in & the mom who was 19 came in & after seeing her baby with a beautiful new face - cried then then bowed her head in prayer...it was a very touching moment for me. Her 24 year old sister then came in & you could see the love between the 2 of them . The sister had an 6 year old at home she left with her husband to come help her sister. I knew as all this was transpiring that I needed to help this family. I asked the coordinator if I could give them some money that had been given to me to help others and she said yes. I did the math to come up with the amt it would take to = the $32 for the bus fare plus some extra money for food & a place to stay between buses along the way & rolled it all up in the local money & gave it to the older sister & just told her that there are people in "my town" that wanted to help them too & I wanted to give this to them. she told me they could never repay my friends or me for giving them this gift but that she was sure God had sent this to them and whoever gave it would be blessed & they would help the many others in their village. By this time I could barely speak & was such a mess that Rachel asked if everythng was okay & I told her all that happened. We showered Juan David with several of the toys I brought & gave the sister some for her 6 year old. We snapped a couple of pictures & I thought that what I had deemed " a typical mission day" about 3 hours earlier had turned out to be anything but typical. Little did I know what the next 30 min would bring - a baby in a real crisis & me ending up staying the night in the hospital with her . that I wil leave for tomorrows blog entry - its too long to write now & I need to get to bed.
These 2 girls reminded me of the sisters in the family of the friend that gave me the $$$ for a need I saw & also of my own girls...I can see how much FAMILY means to everyone all over the world. I am so GRATEFUL to know that Familes are Together for ever and that there is no greater love than family.
When we got to the hospital we went to Post Op & I said good bye to Sara & her mom - her grandpa was there to take them home & spoke some English - he was so sweet & said to me "so you are the nurse she loves - when are you moving to Guatemala to join the family" - it was so nice of him & I took a last photo with her.
Our schedule was changed up a bit as there were 4 patients they had to cancel because they had gotten sick plus 2 no shows...they ended up adding 5 lips from Fri onto the schedule so it looked like it was going to be a nice end to the day with all the added lips.
Aside from the wonderful patients and families & feeling like you are making a small difference & changing a few lives in the world...the other great thing is meeting other wonderful volunteers on the team & hearing their stories. Today before we got our first round of post ops back Melissa who was doing medical records came in to bring us something & we all started talking. she used to volunteer with OSI with her husband who died from colon cancer at age 59. He was a retired attorney & sounded like a wonderful down to earth man - there is a OSI Volunteer award given each year in his name.
Finally on day #4 we got it right with the 1st 5 patients which are always the babies with lip repairs - we did teaching with the moms, asked them to not leave to get breakfast as their babies may be out soon & asked them to be ready to feed their babies after surgery (breast or bottle) and it all worked!!!
The 1st round of palates also went well - there were a few problems with bleeding but nothing significant. It was a much more manageable day, with a steady flow & less chaos - the PACU was actually often quiet & calm. I was taking less photos and enjoying more conversations. Hugging many grateful parents & just doing the work I came here to do. During the day I jot down notes to myself & I even wrote it's really just a "typical mission day"
BUT just when you think that it's a typical day you encounter a patient with a story that reminds me that what we are doing here is anything but typical. We as a team are changing lives like Arjen a 2 1/2 year old little boy who had a HUGE palate & lip repaired - his precious mom could not contain her emotions and tears streamed down her face for several minutes when she saw him after surgery.
OR...14 year old Manuel who lives 22 hours (via 4 different buses)away from here in a small village. His family consists of 9 siblings plus himself & his mom. He is the 2nd oldest and they are very poor and live in a one room "shack" without running water. His mom nor any of his family can read or write. A man who befriended the family - he travels to the smaller villages in Guatemala looking for some of the most desperate & tries to help them - after hearing that Op smile was coming & remembering that Manuel had a cleft lip he took the 22 hour trip to go & get Manual, brought him back on the 22 hour trip & brought him to screening, took care of him until today his surgery day, will keep him thru the weekend then make the 22 hour trip there & back to take him home. What a service to this boy & family. I got this storey from Andrea the student we have been working with. When I asked the man if he had any questions he said no but thanked me for all the service I was doing...I got a little choked up & thanked him for all he was doing for this young man & the difference he was making in his own country and said we should all be so lucky to have a friend like him in our lives...
Then if that wasnt enough patient 001 - yes our very first patient from screening Juan David came in after having his lip repaired. The local coordinator asked if I knew "his story" & I said no. She told me that they were from about 13 hours away but it was a 2 day trip - leaving at 6 pm from their town to take an 8 hour bus ride then waiting in that location until the next early evening to take a 5 hour bus into Guatemala City. They wore more traditional Mayan Clothing & seemed very sweet. For the last MONTH - yes MONTH the priest in the town has been asking the people to give any money they could to help raise the money to get the mom & baby & moms sister to the city and they would pack all their own food & stay at the shelter here. I know at home people are very generous & supportive of others so this isnt something we are unfamiliar with. What moved me to tears was when I asked the coordinator what the bus fee was & she said $8 per person each way $32 TOTAL - many of us spend that when our family goes out to Chipolte or somewhere for dinner...but here it took the kindness of people in a small town donating for a month because the town priest asked them to give & try to help someone in need. she was telling me all of this in the 1st 15 min I was getting the baby settled then I was ready to bring the mom in & the mom who was 19 came in & after seeing her baby with a beautiful new face - cried then then bowed her head in prayer...it was a very touching moment for me. Her 24 year old sister then came in & you could see the love between the 2 of them . The sister had an 6 year old at home she left with her husband to come help her sister. I knew as all this was transpiring that I needed to help this family. I asked the coordinator if I could give them some money that had been given to me to help others and she said yes. I did the math to come up with the amt it would take to = the $32 for the bus fare plus some extra money for food & a place to stay between buses along the way & rolled it all up in the local money & gave it to the older sister & just told her that there are people in "my town" that wanted to help them too & I wanted to give this to them. she told me they could never repay my friends or me for giving them this gift but that she was sure God had sent this to them and whoever gave it would be blessed & they would help the many others in their village. By this time I could barely speak & was such a mess that Rachel asked if everythng was okay & I told her all that happened. We showered Juan David with several of the toys I brought & gave the sister some for her 6 year old. We snapped a couple of pictures & I thought that what I had deemed " a typical mission day" about 3 hours earlier had turned out to be anything but typical. Little did I know what the next 30 min would bring - a baby in a real crisis & me ending up staying the night in the hospital with her . that I wil leave for tomorrows blog entry - its too long to write now & I need to get to bed.
These 2 girls reminded me of the sisters in the family of the friend that gave me the $$$ for a need I saw & also of my own girls...I can see how much FAMILY means to everyone all over the world. I am so GRATEFUL to know that Familes are Together for ever and that there is no greater love than family.