I started my day in
Post Op & found Karisma – she was definitely less exuberant after her
palate repair than before but her mom was so so grateful. I did take a photo of
them. In Pre-Op there were some babies, children and young adults…also 2 women
one is 45 & the other 47. They were so excited for surgery & wanted to
take pics with me & hugged me. I don’t remember them from screening because
I was so engrossed in the work & was glad I could see them today. It is
interesting – most adults do not smile in photos & are very straight faced
– even the school age children. Then when you take a photo of them & show
it to them they smile & sometimes I will try to capture a 2nd
picture.
One of my first recovery room patients was Rittika who was
18 mos. Old & weighed 7 kg (about 15 lbs) the kids here are often petite
& lean but she was tiny! She also had Dextrocardia & a cleft lip &
palate. All we were repairing now was her lip.
Her mom put her hands to her chest and bowed as her way of saying thank
you or from my heart to your heart– as many have done here. She was very sweet
& I spoke to her quite a bit thru Amerita our translator. We talked about the
dextrocardia and what type of care she has had – not much. Mom is 20 years old
(we have had younger moms) and dad is 24. Neither can read or write and dad is
a laborer. The dad wants to learn to be a electrician. After talking to them I
felt a strong impression to give them 2000 Rupee = $35 US money. I did it very
discreetly thru Amerita & told her to tell the mom that I had children
their ages but no grandchildren & friends of mine & I wanted to help
them. We folded the Rupee bill very small & put it in her hand. She became
tearful and my heart was so full.
On missions I try to feel guided as far as how I can help
others & leave a positive impact on the area I go to – I think I have found
my direction here & perhaps I will be helping families one at a time just
like we change their childrens lives one at a time. 2000 Rupee is about 2 weeks wages and they are likely
missing one week by being here. We took a photo together & the she left the
PACU.
It was WAY MORE chaotic today than yesterday & I’m not
sure why? The Indian people talk very loudly so if their child is crying unlike
other places where you might talk softly to comfort them the parents are really
loud & almost screaming at them or so it seems. We have been trying to
encourage them to soothe them softly – sometimes it works & other times not
so much.
We had more moms today who were distraught & nearly
passing out despite Child Life showing them photos etc. They simply have no
context of surgery or hospitalization. Claire the Child Life & I were
talking that maybe when the child goes back the parents have to eat something
before they can go into recovery room. I was able to talk to Bhashkar the local
PC & offer to get food items for the moms. I then found out is was a bigger
issue. Op Smile is feeding the families at the shelter and has a budget to feed
the people in post op but there are many more people than expected & the
daily food is running out. Earlier in the week I had asked if there were needs
I could help with so they came & said it takes about 9000 rupee to feed
everyone here in pre/post op for a full day (about 120 adults if 60 patients
have 2 people with them. So with the generosity of friends I offered to cover the
last 3 days of food that they wouldn’t have had because they have had overage
charges from the people who make the food every day. Again I never thought that
I would be instrumental in feeding the patients families in the hospital but I
am excited to do so! People who are laborers (the ones I saw in the village at
the coal mine, brickyard & in the fields earn about $2 US a day. They mostly
eat rice & lentils. In fact when the older kids wake up & we offer them
juice they often ask for rice – so funny! For fresh fruit 6 mandarins are 50
rupee or 1/3 of a days work so fresh fruit is a luxury.
Later in the day there were 3 more families I gave rupees
to. I explained to Amerita that it was not based on anything in particular but if
I felt prompted to do it I would & they didn’t need to be the patients I
recovered they could be any of them but I wasn’t sharing the info with anyone
but the interpreters. One of them was the family of Ahmat Raza – it had taken
them longet to get here o they just arrived yesterday – the child was screened
& fortunately was placed on the schedule today. Mom is 22 & dad is 28,
they too are illiterate & the mom was so distraught that the aunt came in
recovery to be with the patient & told us of their journey to get here-several
days & many challenges. I was hoping the money would help them travel back
more easily.
Because of the demonetization there have been issues with
the scrub techs & nurses at the hospital not showing up because they haven’t
been getting paid. Usually the hospital provides some of these folks to round
out the team but that has not been the case here so there have been some challenges
but we have not experienced it in Recovery – there are 3 of us international
& 1 in country RN Sarita.
By 2 pm we had received 14 patients & were half way
there. It seemed we had more flies in the recovery room today – I am sure the
open windows, food, blood whatever attracts them? Sharon cleaned our bathroom
in the PACU like no other – I am pretty sure it is the best one in the entire
hospital.
As I walked patients to post op I noticed the families lining
the hallways sitting on our flattened cargo boxes that were outside the
storeroom – I asked Victoria if that was the intent & she said no people
just started taking them so they weren’t sitting on the floor – necessity is
the mother of invention – cardboard mats for all!
We had high hopes that we would get out earlier today but
that was not to be – we did some fo the older lip patients so bigger lips &
patients=bigger problems. The older women looked totally transformed – I cant
wait to see them in post op tomorrow. The highlight of the evening was Ganesh –
I posted a pic of him & will do a before & after when I can. He is
developmentally delayed & lives far away. They found him as part of the
recruitment campaign. He was ALWAYs smiling ear to ear even with his cleft lip.
He is very bonded to mom because of the devel delay & the lip. They have
been inseperable his entire life. I didn’t find out if there was a dad in the
picture. The OR folks had mom go in with him for anesthesia induction &
then we had mom in the PACU as he arrived to us. He did wake up a little
crazy & mostly wanted his IV out. We
showed him in a mirror himself & he just stared – not a dry eye in the PACU
We left the hospital at 9 pm & there was one pt left in
the PACU. I was on call again so Sharon said shed stay. Pradeep the Intensivist
was on the bus with us – not sure why as typically the PI stays until the last
patient is gone & as luck would have it about halfway back to the hotel we
got a call that the patient was vomiting & in pain – so we turned the bus
abound – not an easy feet on the roads of India & went back. We finally got
to the hotel at 10:30. I had a really scratch throat – not sure if its from the
chemicals in the hospital, the Sevo gas or the smoke but my throat was reacting
& all I did was shower & go to bed
Nancy,
ReplyDeleteYou are amazing and your heart is so big. Wish I could be there with you. Hope you feel better. Say hi to Victoria for me! Xoxo